Casual doesn't mean careless. The people who get invited back again and again all follow the same unwritten rules.

Respect privacy — always

What happens between you two stays between you two. No screenshots, no sharing names, no bragging. Discretion isn't just polite — it's what keeps the whole community comfortable enough to be open in the first place.

Consent at every step

Enthusiasm is the only green light that counts. Check in, listen, and never assume. "Are you into this?" is sexy, not awkward. If anything feels off, slow down. A confident partner is one who makes the other person feel safe.

Show up like you said you would

Flaking is the fastest way to build a bad reputation. If plans change, say so. Being reliable and honest about what you want makes you the person people actually want to see again.

Keep it clean and keep it kind

Look after your health, be upfront, and treat every member like a real person — because they are. Follow the etiquette and you won't just get more matches, you'll get better ones.

Join the community and meet people who play by the same rules.